Having gone thru my "tuner" phase in my 30's on my poor '02 maxima, I truly DO understand the want/need/desire to "pimp-z-ride".
really guys....I DO.
With that said -- it's a friggin' CROSSTOUR!
Buy a Camaro, A mustang, A Subaru WRX, or a HOST of other tune-boy cars out there....but just leave the Crosstour ALone!!!
You are just gonna mess it up, and Honda has already over-tweaked the V-6 with VCM.
You are NOT gonna win messing with THIS engine.